2026 60 questions meme

[pattrose]

2026 60 questions meme.

Who is someone you envy and why?

I don't really envy anyone. Everyone is their own person and we all know how to do something that someone else can't. Be happy with your goals and your life.

Comments

[fairyniamh]

Envy is one of the seven deadly sins. I don't envy, just push myself harder.

[pattrose]

I agree with you on that.

[mxcatmoon]

Envy makes people behave so ugly sometimes. It's not a good thing.

[pattrose]

True.

[kitarella_imagines]

I don't envy specific people, just those who have a supportive, loving network of family and friends, and have fun times together. I've resigned myself to just having one husband and one daughter, any attempts to socialise further have been met with metaphorical slammed doors, so I've given up.

[pattrose]

Oh, really? I always think there are friends all over the place. You just have to be open. But there is always a chance it could backfire. Don't listen to me.

[kitarella_imagines]

Well I used to have friends in my teens and 20s, then we moved to this small, cliquey village where we've lived for decades. I had to stay here so my daughter could have a consistent education etc. She has friends she's known since birth. My husband grew up here too, he has lots of friends and a network etc. But somehow I got missed out and don't have any of that.

I realised recently though that most people where I live are right wingers on the way to fascism, whereas I'm the opposite, a 'liberal lefty' so that's probably why I didn't make friends. That's actually a good thing as I don't want to fit in with them and their views.

[pattrose]

I wouldn’t want to be their friend either. You’re doing exactly what you should be doing.

[kitarella_imagines]

Thank you Patt, you are very kind 💗