Grey pointed out a very good reason I might have been upset with the new movie.

No matter what happens, they are still supposed to be friends. That's what was missing in this movie. A lot of people think that Iron Man and Cap weren't friends, but they were. As close as Tony lets anyone get to him. I missed that closeness and wish they could have a do-over. :) Maybe that will be coming up in the newest film next year. We'll see.