90 questions for discussion
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Think of someone from your life you miss terribly. What would you say to them?
I had a dear friend that married young like we did. They had a little boy four months old, named Roman. He was so darling. I was pregnant with my first child at the time. Our friends were Denny and Thais. They went to see their parents one weekend and a train hit their car, killing both Thais and Roman. We were all heartbroken, but Denny lost touch with reality. His family asked if I would stay at the hospital with him during the funerals. I was 18, nine months pregnant and it was the worst thing that ever happened to me. We tried to stay close to Denny but he was really out there. He told my hubby that the baby I was carrying, was his. Poor thing. I miss Thais but I didn’t know how to handle Denny. So, I missed both of them. And that precious baby, was so missed. If I had a chance to talk to Thais, I would thank her for our friendship and tell her how much I would miss her. Now, I’m sad.
Think of someone from your life you miss terribly. What would you say to them?
I had a dear friend that married young like we did. They had a little boy four months old, named Roman. He was so darling. I was pregnant with my first child at the time. Our friends were Denny and Thais. They went to see their parents one weekend and a train hit their car, killing both Thais and Roman. We were all heartbroken, but Denny lost touch with reality. His family asked if I would stay at the hospital with him during the funerals. I was 18, nine months pregnant and it was the worst thing that ever happened to me. We tried to stay close to Denny but he was really out there. He told my hubby that the baby I was carrying, was his. Poor thing. I miss Thais but I didn’t know how to handle Denny. So, I missed both of them. And that precious baby, was so missed. If I had a chance to talk to Thais, I would thank her for our friendship and tell her how much I would miss her. Now, I’m sad.
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Date: 2026-03-12 02:13 pm (UTC)Eu sinto muita falta de inúmeras pessoas, a saudade é um sentimento dos mais agridoces que existe. Você pode ao mesmo tempo se lembrar amorosamente de alguém e depois chorar porque essa pessoa partiu. Tudo fica suspenso e sempre há aquela sensação de que faltou dizer algo a mais.
Então eu não diria somente para uma, pois a perda me atingiu diversas vezes e antes mesmo do meu nascimento. Mas acho que se pudesse agora falaria com meu pai. Mesmo nossa relação não tendo sido dado melhores ele era meu exemplo, meu tudo e eu sinto falta dele todos os dias. Quando ele se foi ficou nas minhas costas toda uma responsabilidade que não era minha e eu fiquei muito chateada com isso. Principalmente com ele. Mas hoje tento aos poucos superar isso, só que não é fácil. Entretanto se eu pudesse teria dito mais uma vez que o amava e o abraçaria. Adorava quando ficamos juntos deitados curtindo o tempo passar ou vendo algo.
Ps.: não sou de chorar mas quase o fiz lendo sobre sua amiga e deixando meu comentário